Thursday, December 4, 2008

LAUNDRY!! ----AUGH!!


No, this is not really me.......... but it could be on any given day. Please take notice of the bowl and spoon. These two things are the nemesis of my dirty dishes. And, the clothes? Who owns a blue robe around here? Huh, I wonder.....
I just found this pic on the web and thought it would be cool to upload with this post!


I have been toying with the idea of getting rid of most of my children's clothing. I think my whole laundry problem is that we have too many clothes. I don't know where they all came from, either. I am not a big shopper -- not clothing anyway. :) I shop at the thrift store for the boys' clothes, for goodness sake.
Anyway, I think I could get rid of most of their clothing and they would never notice. And, then, wouldn't I have fewer loads of laundry to do? I mean, mathematically, that sounds right, doesn't it? Fewer clothes, fewer loads of laundry.

Clayton realistically only need 3 pair of jeans, 4 shirts each of long and short sleeves, 5 underpants, 7 pair of socks and one set of clothing for church, right? Let me think that thru here on the computer............If all the clothes were clean on Sunday morning, he would wear the Sunday clothes, and one pair of jeans and a t-shirt and a sweatshirt plus the underwear and socks, etc. on Sunday. The first thing he will run out of will be the jeans. Wear the Sunday ones again on Monday and then new on Tuesday and new on Wednesday. So -- laundry on Wed night for new jeans on Thursday, Friday and Saturday. Wash on Sat. night again and we are good for the week, right? The other boys clothes are small enough to fit in with Clayton's and still only make like two large loads, I think. When they all get bigger, we may have to rethink this whole thing. Or, giving them each one night to do their own laundry sounds kind of good to me!! :)

Now, I need to figure at least 2 loads of whites each week (sox & u-wear + kitchen towels and washcloths) and at least 2 loads of bath towels and a load of sheets each week, too. That is figuring that we use sheets for 2 weeks and I only wash two beds each week. Otherwise, if I want to wash everyone's sheets each week, then I need to make it 2 loads there. (I try to wash sheets more often in the summer. Boys are dirtier, and wear less clothing to bed, hence, dirtier sheets! In the winter with the "zip jammies", etc. I let them go longer on the beds.) Also need to figure in a couple of loads of Joe's clothes, since he's so dirty, his work clothes get washed separately.

So Kids clothes on Sats. and Weds. Joe's on Monday and Thursday. Towels and whites on Mondays and Thursdays, too, lets say. That leaves only sheets, and my clothes, which I add in with the kids most of the time. So, lets add thesheets to Weds., because Saturdays are busy with running and cleaning and baths, too. That really only leaves me with Tuesdays as no laundry days.....so not much different than I do now. However, it sounds like this may alleviate the piles (mountains!) of laundry in my basement laundry room, doesn't it?

I think I will ponder that and work it out into my schedule (like I really have a schedule!) :)
I will post if I actually do it and if it is working out the way I picture it in my head. "They" say it takes 21 days to develop a new habit or to break an old one, so we'll see how this goes.
I would love to come out from beneath the mountain and breathe some fresh air!!

Saturday, November 29, 2008

I stole this picture from Mike Fennema's facebook page........ no one else has emailed me one yet and I think it is a cool one to put up for a Thanksgiving day blog. This is my Gramma Fennema (mom's mom) with all of the great-grandchildren that were in attendance on Thanksgiving Day 2008. (I think 7 or so are missing) By January 2009, Lord willing, Gramma will have 38 great-grandkids!! If we were able to get everyone who "decended" from Gramma and Grandpa Fennema together it would be a total of 78 people from what I can calculate............5 kids, plus 5 spouses; 16 grandkids, plus 14 spouses; 34 great-grandkids (8 for Sharon, 9 for Donna, 14 for Gene, 2 for Carol, 1 for Deb), plus 2 "step" ones and 2 more one the way ---any day really. That's 10+16+14+34+4=78.......right?? I just had to do that math 4 times!! (pathetic!) The only ones missing from this picture are my Chris, the Rockford 3, and the Germany 3. What a legacy that comes from just 2 people -- gramma & grandpa, huh??

I'm going to try and upload this on my facebook and tag everyone............anyone reading this who can check my tags, please do and let me know if I got someone wrong. I'm kind of bad with the names.

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Cruel Joke on My Face

OK, after this post, I am getting off the computer and back to the cookies I am baking and the laundry that needs to be "flipped" again....but I felt the need to vent about this quick a minute:

What kind of cruel joke is my body playing on my almost 37 year old, limited self-esteem? I've gotten these new "laugh-lines" sprouting up on my face as I approach 40 years old. I do not like them. So, I bought some "super crease filling, collagen miracle cream" to put on the lines @ night. What kind of skin issues do I have that I can get wrinkles beginning and still get pimples in the wrinkles??? I put the cream on at night and wake up with a HUGE pimple in the wrinkle in the morning?? NOT FAIR!!! Pick an age, face! Preferably, the younger one. At least I know how to deal with zits and at least they go away. The wrinkles look as if they are here to stay.

Ah, so goes life, I guess, huh?

Holidays @ the Grocery Store (or just everyday shopping with kids)

I just got thru reading about some of my friends going to try to get some grocery shopping done today -- the day before Thanksgiving!! Are they crazy??! I went to Meijer yesterday, because I needed to get a few things and they had a game I needed to get for a December birthday present on sale (only thru today, so.....). It was quite a ZOO already. They did have almost all the checkout lines open though, and no one seemed to be doing their big weekly shopping, so no huge full, $200 carts in front of me in line........

Anyway, that reminded me of an E-bay listing from a year or more ago that was sent around in e-mail for quite a while -- just for kicks. This woman had a big long story about Pokemon cards and why she was selling them.....
(You can read it here: http://www.internetinfluencemagic.com/misc/ebay_pokemon_cards.html if you haven't had the privilege of reading it yet.)

I absolutely love this woman's sense of humor and the way she describes her trips to the grocery store. It makes me feel pretty good about only having to stop twice for Cole to try and go Poop yesterday at Meijer. Or, the way he & I must sound to other people around us as he is doing the "poopy whine" right before the second time I took him to the bathroom. "It's coming -- really this time, mom -- REALLY!" "AUGH! I smell it -- did you just poop in your pants?" "No, but you told me to"......(which I did in my disgusted sarcasm of not wanting to venture across the store to the bathroom again!)....."It's for REAL this time, mom, it's poking me"! Of course, the pitch of Cole's voice is getting higher and louder with each sentence, and he does not have a voice you can easily ignore anyway. We must've sounded like morons to other shoppers -- especially the ones who end up going up and down the same aisles with you as you work your way thru the store, you know? These poor people got the whole low-down and update on Cole's poop progress all the way from the dairy case back up front to produce (where there is a bathroom off to the west side, thank goodness!)

I gave up, when I have 3 boys shopping with me -- 9, 6, & 4 -- on any kind of decorum or pretense of sanity when I am grocery shopping. Like I have said before, I look around the grocery store most days and really feel pretty good about myself in comparison to some of the other shoppers. So, anymore, I just bark orders at the boys and try to get in and out of the store as quickly as possible. I have tried to give into them sometimes by "buying the behavior" with a special little toy or snack and that lasts all of about 5 minutes with these guys. I have tried to give the bigger kids little jobs like, "Go get the milk and meet me back here"....I always end up either losing them to the fish tanks on the way to the milk or going after the right milk myself anyway. ("When have we ever bought the kind in the glass jar?" [Oberweiss] -- way too much $$! Or no, "I did NOT say that chocolate was OK this time," as the child brings back 2 gallons of brown milk instead of 2%!). We have bought a dozen eggs that we never got to bring home, because I sent an 8 year old after them and they were dropped on the trip back to the cart. We have almost purchased $5 boxes of cereal because I was not paying attention and sent someone after "3 bags of cereal -- I don't care which kind". All the boy heard was "cereal -- I don't care which kind". We have NOT however, like the poor woman in the aisle with me yesterday, purchased 4 jars of applesauce because we knocked them off the shelf. We have been fortunate enough to have only knocked plastic or boxes off the shelves recently. We must look rather comical on the bad trips where no one is listening and the wrestling continues past the deli and produce......this is when the young boys walking with me must put their hands on top of their heads and "follow mom in one line -- like ducks"!! The smallest one riding in the cart is then in charge of tattling on the older ones who "are not 'wining' up like 'gucks', mom, you see 'dem?"

When I am in a nostalgic mood, I realize that these days of shopping trips like this are quickly coming to a close for me. All of my boys are in school, at least part of the day, at this point and it will be a quick year or so before Cole is in school full-time too. Alas, the shopping trips will be relegated only to the summer months and the boys are quickly becoming "better behaved" anyway..........or old enough that I can send them to the toy or video game aisle by themselves soon! Thank goodness for Megamarts like Walmart and Meijer, where you can buy groceries and video games only a few aisle away from each other! :)